Avoid These Words (And Not Just at Work)
Adam Savage’s Tested
Why leaders watch it
Shows how dismissive phrases like 'why don't you just' undermine colleagues, and how to phrase help respectfully.
Adam Savage answers viewer questions on dealing with condescending colleagues, focusing on dismissive phrases such as 'why don't you just' and 'I would have'. He explains why such language undermines the person receiving it.
Takeaways
- Avoid 'just' and 'I would have' phrasing
- Condescension erodes trust and collaboration
- Ask questions instead of prescribing solutions
Topics: Feedback, coaching & mentoring, Building teams & trust
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